How do you know if you’re ‘on the beam’?
selfishness
If they loved me, they would know what to do to make me happy
If the world really loved me, it would know what to do to make me happy. If my wife really loved me, she would know what to do to make me happy. And if my buddies, business partners, and others I deal with, really loved me, they would know what to do to make me happy. And they would do it without asking. Just make me happy, that is all that I ask of the world.