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Asymmetrical Forgiveness
Based on my experience, forgiveness is a necessary part of Step 8. Step 8 is the precursor to Step 9 ...
Letting Go
This GEM is from a meeting some months ago in Thunder Bay. Forgiveness is letting go of what I think ...
Inventory of Principles
In our moral and personal inventories, we are instructed to create a Grudge List with people, institutions and principles that ...
Impression Management
Impression management is a difficult job involving unceasing labour. Without any independent self-esteem, I am dependent on what others think ...
Cultivating, trimming, and maintaining resentments
I am spending a lot more time on the west coast these days. They have carefully cultivated gardens and shaped ...
If they loved me, they would know what to do to make me happy
If the world really loved me, it would know what to do to make me happy. If my wife really ...
Happiness is Simple
Happiness is not complicated. Happiness is a lot like our Program. Our Program is straightforward. Happiness is simple; we can ...
A Foolish King
“Even a foolish King can win a battle with good advisors.” (Paul at a meeting in Gulf Shores, Alabama.) Good ...
Stay on the Program Bus
“Stay on the bus, the scenery will change. Get off, and you are there forever.” --Heard at a recent meeting ...
Navel Gazing
This post is for the word freaks in the crowd. Words are really neat. And some words are just fascinating ...
Breaking into the Bank
I came to AA and found two dimensions: The Program and the Fellowship. At first, I paid more attention to ...
The heart is a divine antenna
At a meeting last week someone shared that “the heart is a divine antenna.” An antenna picks up invisible radio ...
You can’t make a sandwich without the bread
Making a peanut butter sandwich is the end result of a causal chain. It requires a series of events and ...
Look where you want to go
I am not interested in sky diving. But a fellow I know in the Program is; and he taught me ...
Living in Fear
When I am running on self-will, I am entirely reliant on myself with no external power to help me. When ...
Practical Zen
A share at a meeting: “It is amazing how long the day is when you are there for the whole ...
