The topic at the AA meeting was spiritual awakenings.
After several younger AAs spoke, an old-timer was asked to share; he decided it was time to straighten everyone out.
His point, “the Founders of AA only did the Steps once. They did the Steps once, and they had their spiritual awakening. This idea of doing the Steps again is nonsense.” Speaking at length, he made the same point repeatedly, not appreciating the irony of repeating a lecture on doing something only once.
The young AAs in the room were hanging on his every word. Perhaps memorizing his points to be able to quote him to their sponsors.
He finally wound down his share and stopped.
The next fellow, another old-timer, announced his name and began his share.
“Spiritual awakenings are interesting for sure. Bill Wilson had a big one with his white light experience in the hospital. It was a doozy. If I had an experience like that, feeling I was on a mountain with a clear wind, like Moses and the commandments, that would be all I would need. I wouldn‘t need another step. Once and done, for sure.
“But that was not what happened. Bill had his white light spiritual awakening in Townes Hospital, then a couple of years later, he wrote the Twelve Steps. Before writing them down, he had been practicing them.
“The Founders talked about progressing spiritually and applying the Steps in all their affairs. They did not think that the Steps would wear out with repeated use.
“Their story is my story; I am a slow learner and have done the Steps many times. And every time I did them, I had another awakening.
“Some guys do them once. I needed more.
“There are many paths to the top of the mountain and many ways to maintain our spiritual condition.
“Everyone has to find a way that works for them.
“There are many things we are not, including dogmatic.
Thanks, I’ll pass to the next fellow, knowing we may hear another way to bake this Program into our lives.”
The young AAs in the meeting were confused, but it was constructive confusion. The flexibility they were seeing was frightening and liberating. Confused, they would surely talk with their sponsors. Not with memorized wisdom, but curiosity about what their path to the mountaintop would look like.
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After 15 years and feeling complacent I have just completed my umpteenth big book study. This one was different it focused more on the steps at a deeper emotional level. It has been an amazing journey and rekindled my love of AA. Keep up the journey
Patti, thanks for your note. Great to hear from a fellow traveller, one who continues to practice the Steps which induce spiritual principles in ourselves. Keep it up. I have been following that path and habit for decades and ‘it never gets old.’
Hi Andy,
I like this new feedback feature, I often read your posts and have a thought or two to share, now I will!
Hopefully the Desert is as enjoyable as when we were with you last year.
We did not go south this year, decided to give it a pass. Off to Spain next month. Not a bad alternative.
We are doing well, and I am happy that you are still enjoying the blogs.
It is good to know that there are other slow learners out there besides myself. I have to practice the steps every day. I am not sure I will ever get it right in this lifetime but I am going to keep trying.
Andy you are a great webmaster
Thanks, Paul, you and I are sicker than others and have to work a bit harder, and for that we are grateful.