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Defeats are better than problems
At the lawyers’ AA meeting, one share jumped out. The speaker was a litigator, a courtroom lawyer. He began, “I ...
Newcomer and Retreads
On the4thdimension.ca website, we have many requests for a list of Dr. Bob’s Five Essentials and Two Optionals. Dr. Bob ...
Spiral Staircase
My AA friend and I were out for a walk. We wanted to cross a broad and busy 6-lane road; ...
Sobriety is a long game
The topic at the meeting was, ‘sobriety is a long game.’ The more I pondered this aphorism, the larger it ...
Spousal Advice
An AA sister shared, “We go to sponsors for advice in AA, and only AA advice.” Wise sponsors restrict their ...
Air Canada and running out of fuel
Many years ago, a Boeing 777 ran out of fuel over Manitoba. It was a famous near-disaster. A colossal jet, ...
Never Never Again
A parent was heard to say, “as soon as I say, my child would never, there, he comes …. nevering ...
Book survey results
This week I wanted to share the results of the survey of the4thdimension.ca blog readers. We asked for book recommendations ...
You Cannot Do God’s Job
An AA sister in Palm Desert shared, “You cannot do God’s work, and He’s not going to do yours.” A ...
Always Do What I Always Did
A popular AA saying is, “If I always do what I always did, I will always get what I always ...
Got the t-shirt
The subject of the conversation was ‘people-pleasing.’ The topic had come up at our Home Group Tuesday night, which we ...
Never asked why
The mind is like a parachute, “it works best when opened.” Recently I learned this lesson - again. Newcomers I ...
Sweeping out Dark Corners
At a recent meeting, where the subject was Step Five, a lady shared two benefits of doing a Step Five ...
God is an Al-Anon
“Maybe, just maybe, God is an Al-Anon.” Recently an AA brother shared this thought, a thought that would give any ...
Committee in my Head
A visitor from out of town is always welcome at an AA meeting. Recently a visitor brought a note of ...
Alternative Serenity Prayer
The serenity prayer is heard at AA meetings around the world and is a lifesaver when things go wrong. For ...
