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Press the Pause Button

Press the Pause Button

PPL. Pause Pray and Listen. This simple admonition is Bill Wilson's advice and direction on Step Three. In the last ...
Desire versus willingness

Desire versus willingness

The only requirement for attendance at an AA meeting is a desire to stop drinking, but the requirement for Membership ...
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Take a Shot

Take a Shot

Like other tennis players, I have worked on improving my technique. My tennis strokes worked, but my coach said that ...
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Just Do It!

Just Do It!

Just do it. Even if you get it wrong, you will get it right. This applies in all areas of ...
Learning from Amends

Learning from Amends

In Chapter 8 of the Twelve Steps and Twelve Traditions, Bill W. makes a point about Step 8 of our ...
Emotional Balance

Emotional Balance

I took up the sport of tennis late in life. I hired a coach and took lessons every week. We ...
The Importance of Meetings

The Importance of Meetings

Meetings are for all who are interested in spiritual development, and they mean a lot to everyone who attends. Newcomers ...
AA is not a spectator sport

AA is not a spectator sport

A great share at a meeting – “Drinking is not a spectator sport, and neither is AA.” I cannot enjoy ...
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Program Paradoxes

Program Paradoxes

Program Paradoxes: As we think more about ourselves, we think more of ourselves. The Program involves a lot of introspection ...
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Dance Steps

Dance Steps

When I am dancing and I change my rhythm, my partner will change as well. Maybe not right away, but ...
Asymmetrical Forgiveness

Asymmetrical Forgiveness

Based on my experience, forgiveness is a necessary part of Step 8. Step 8 is the precursor to Step 9 ...
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Letting Go

Letting Go

This GEM is from a meeting some months ago in Thunder Bay. Forgiveness is letting go of what I think ...
Inventory of Principles

Inventory of Principles

In our moral and personal inventories, we are instructed to create a Grudge List with people, institutions and principles that ...
Impression Management

Impression Management

Impression management is a difficult job involving unceasing labour. Without any independent self-esteem, I am dependent on what others think ...
Cultivating, trimming, and maintaining resentments

Cultivating, trimming, and maintaining resentments

I am spending a lot more time on the west coast these days. They have carefully cultivated gardens and shaped ...
If they loved me, they would know what to do to make me happy

If they loved me, they would know what to do to make me happy

If the world really loved me, it would know what to do to make me happy. If my wife really ...
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