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Press the Pause Button
PPL. Pause Pray and Listen. This simple admonition is Bill Wilson's advice and direction on Step Three. In the last ...
Desire versus willingness
The only requirement for attendance at an AA meeting is a desire to stop drinking, but the requirement for Membership ...
Take a Shot
Like other tennis players, I have worked on improving my technique. My tennis strokes worked, but my coach said that ...
Just Do It!
Just do it. Even if you get it wrong, you will get it right. This applies in all areas of ...
Learning from Amends
In Chapter 8 of the Twelve Steps and Twelve Traditions, Bill W. makes a point about Step 8 of our ...
Emotional Balance
I took up the sport of tennis late in life. I hired a coach and took lessons every week. We ...
The Importance of Meetings
Meetings are for all who are interested in spiritual development, and they mean a lot to everyone who attends. Newcomers ...
AA is not a spectator sport
A great share at a meeting – “Drinking is not a spectator sport, and neither is AA.” I cannot enjoy ...
Program Paradoxes
Program Paradoxes: As we think more about ourselves, we think more of ourselves. The Program involves a lot of introspection ...
Dance Steps
When I am dancing and I change my rhythm, my partner will change as well. Maybe not right away, but ...
Asymmetrical Forgiveness
Based on my experience, forgiveness is a necessary part of Step 8. Step 8 is the precursor to Step 9 ...
Letting Go
This GEM is from a meeting some months ago in Thunder Bay. Forgiveness is letting go of what I think ...
Inventory of Principles
In our moral and personal inventories, we are instructed to create a Grudge List with people, institutions and principles that ...
Impression Management
Impression management is a difficult job involving unceasing labour. Without any independent self-esteem, I am dependent on what others think ...
Cultivating, trimming, and maintaining resentments
I am spending a lot more time on the west coast these days. They have carefully cultivated gardens and shaped ...
If they loved me, they would know what to do to make me happy
If the world really loved me, it would know what to do to make me happy. If my wife really ...
